L2J Server

Hello everyone, I have this crazy problem, I mean, i've done everything right, and it still doesen't work.
I can enter my server but my friends can't, can anyone help me solve this problem?
These are my configs:
http://img818.imageshack.us/img818/7748/allconfigs.png

Yes i've opened 2106,7777,9014,80,53,2009 tcp/udp ports like l2jserver recommended, i've opened them in my firewall and in my router aswell, still no difference at all, is this problem normal? I've done this with a server that I had and it worked and now, on this one its different , and it wasn't a pre-config pack, I downloaded a clean version and I made my own customs etc...
I've changed l2.ini serveraddr to my external ip aswell
I''ve added my ip with l2auth to my hosts list aswell
I mean its just tooooooooooooooo muuuuuuuuuuuuuch wierd.... help plz :p
Any help would be appreciated

@AEdward

follow this guide: http://trac.l2jserver.com/wiki/L2J_Install

MELERIX wrote:follow this guide: http://trac.l2jserver.com/wiki/L2J_Install

Damn... Can I save my l2jfrozen database , armors, weapons, teleports, spawnlist etc.. that I made? And make a restorebackup on that that rev?

may be, but manually.

we don't give support for forks.

MELERIX wrote:may be, but manually.

we don't give support for forks.

nevermind that already lost everything :p, I've done everything, the result is : the same ... problably its my new router because I've mooved recently and I had a server on my previous router and I did the same I did this time with my old server and it worked 100% and now I've mooved, and changed internet company and ever since I never was able to open a online server again... can you tell me if this router blocks anything or something that makes people unable to connect to my servers? Huawei HG8247a aKa the useless router ... ^_^

You should try with default l2.ini, using only the hosts file.
For some reason, every time I tried to define a custom IP in l2.ini, the client wouldn't connect anymore.

try open ports using this tool: http://www.simpleportforwarding.com/

MELERIX wrote:try open ports using this tool: http://www.simpleportforwarding.com/

I did with that program before and now aswell, still the same :/ maybe its my router that is blocking people to connect me because it's a router that also connects to the phone and the tv etc... am I wrong?

or maybe people is using wrong L2 Client.

How are your friends connecting? By hosts or did you add IP to l2.ini?

suggested is editing of hosts. at least worked for me